So why do men cheat? What makes them take the other route when it comes to relationships? Do all men cheat for the same reason? Well there are several types of men on this planet and no not all cheat for the same reason. Each one has his own story to tell. Read on to discover the major reasons why men cheat.
Past habit- Some men are addicted and cheat only due to the fact they simply can't control themselves. They might get into a relationship or even married but after the initial phase they get back to the route of cheating and cheat only because of lack of control on their bodies.
Lack of attraction- Sometimes things tend to go dry after the initial phases of the marriage or the relationship and they start looking for better options. Some men tend to loose attraction towards their wife or girlfriend but at the same time do not want to get out of the relationship therefore they tend to cheat.
Sex- This is the most common major reason why most men cheat. According to some men sex tends to get boring after a while and they want something fresh. There in this quest for something exciting and something new they tend to cheat on their wives or girl friends.
Constant nagging- Sometimes due to constant nagging and quarrels at home men tend to cheat. This might be simply due to one's ego satisfaction or just take revenge on one's wife or girl friend. This basically deals with the emotional connection a man is not able to make with his wife or girlfriend and that's why he goes out looking for the same connection with someone else.
Thursday, July 29, 2010
Friday, July 23, 2010
SHE's just NOT that into you...
As any guy who's ever tried to size up a girl can attest, picking up on whether she likes you or not isn't always easy. Women have a language all their own that hints at their feelings towards you, from disinterest to outright flirtation, and while some elements of the language are simple enough to pick up on others are downright vague. And unfortunately, some guys don't get the hint. They either misinterpret what's covertly being said to them or just ignore it altogether, opting to plow straight ahead with wooing and then suffering embarrassment. And while some guys can put up with that, not everybody has a big enough ego to keep on truckin' after getting shot down.
Here are some signs that she's just not into you. Keep them close to your heart at all times when you're talking to a lady you fancy.
1). She's easily distracted away from you. This is a big one. If a girl likes a guy she'll either spend all her time fixated on him or, at the very least, make a concerted effort to talk to him as much as possible. If you constantly have to bring yourself to her attention, she's probably not that interested in you. Worse, she might actually consider you a nuisance if you're always popping up without warning, so if you want her to EVER like you I'd suggest not getting in her face too much.
2). When she is talking to you, she has no problems looking elsewhere. More, she may appear bored and suddenly remove herself from the conversation. Boredom at your presence is a bad sign
3). She displays uncomfotable body language, aka, orienting her body away from yours! I didn't really think this was true until I witnessed it firsthand, but a girl interested in a particular guy will point their body towards him whenever possible, even if it just means pointing their feet at him. Watch which direction their toes are facing. Are they towards you? Does their whole body seem to stretch in your direction, or is it headed somewhere else? In the latter case, she's not interested.
4). She refuses to make concrete plans with you. Any time you ask her if she wants to do something you'll get the 'ahh, I'm too busy' run-around. An interested girl always makes time.
5). She'll enjoy being around you, but she'll act more like you're a good friend. A sibling, even, which is a deadly zone for a man interested in something more than friendship. If a girl ever says 'you're like a brother', your chances of a relationship are sunk, and possibly for good.
6). And, most telling of all, she'll flirt with other guys. Sometimes this is just to make the first guy jealous, but if she never goes BACK to him then he never stood a chance in the first place
Rejection is part of life, guys. Not every girl is gonna be into you. The sooner you absorb that, the better off you'll be in the long run - and the faster you'll run into that girl who genuinely DOES dig what you bring to the table.
10 Things Never to Say to a Woman
1). She’s just a friend.
Yeah right. If she’s attractive and single, she'll see her as a threat. If
she really is just a friend, let her know the reason why. Is it because she’s not your type,she has a boyfriend, she has an annoying personality? Women like to be reassured that you’re not secretly into your “friend."
2). I’ll call you tonight at 8pm.
Do NOT give a specific time or date of when you will be calling unless you intend to keep your word. If you say you will call tonight, she is expecting a call tonight. Not calling will set off all sorts of alarms that will lead to distrust. If you don’t know when you will call, you can say something like, “I’ll talk to you later.”
3). She’s hot!
She'll want to think that, at least in your eyes, she is the hottest woman on the planet. Pointing out that someone else is attractive will not earn you any brownie points. She doesn't want to know if you think anyone else is hot, so zip it!
4). I don’t use condoms.
That’s nice. She doesn't want an STD. Condoms are a fact of life in today’s society, so unless you’ve been tested and plan to be monogamous, get used to them.
5). I love you
If you don’t mean it, you’ll be opening Pandora’s Box. Women do not take
this statement lightly. She is waiting for you to say it and when you do, she assumes the relationship is moving to the next level. If you’re not ready for that, then don’t utter these three little words until you are.
6). Did you gain weight?
Does this one really need an explanation? You shouldn’t even say this jokingly, even if your girlfriend is stick thin. Just as you don’t want to hear anything about your “size”, women don’t want to hear about their weight.
7). My ex always/never/used to…
If your ex is still on your mind so much that you need to constantly bring her up, then why are you dating us? Relationships are difficult enough without the ghost of your ex floating around. Either get back with her or shut up.
8). You remind me of my mother.
Do not compare your mother to your girlfriend unless you’ve made it clear that you absolutely adore your mother and think the world of her.
9). Did we have plans?
Oh no you didn’t! If you've made plans to get together, she's been looking forward to it all day. She's been thinking about how to dress and how to do her hair. Don’t rain on her parade by being dumb enough to forget or there will be hell to pay.
10). Keep in touch/Call me.
What the heck is that supposed to mean? That you don’t plan on ever calling her again? That you want her to call you next time? That you’re unsure how she feels about you and you want to see if she'll call? The fact that you are being vague and distant is going to raise a red flag. Upfront honesty might not be the most desirable approach due to a high degree of awkwardness, but sometimes honesty is the best policy.
Yeah right. If she’s attractive and single, she'll see her as a threat. If
she really is just a friend, let her know the reason why. Is it because she’s not your type,she has a boyfriend, she has an annoying personality? Women like to be reassured that you’re not secretly into your “friend."
2). I’ll call you tonight at 8pm.
Do NOT give a specific time or date of when you will be calling unless you intend to keep your word. If you say you will call tonight, she is expecting a call tonight. Not calling will set off all sorts of alarms that will lead to distrust. If you don’t know when you will call, you can say something like, “I’ll talk to you later.”
3). She’s hot!
She'll want to think that, at least in your eyes, she is the hottest woman on the planet. Pointing out that someone else is attractive will not earn you any brownie points. She doesn't want to know if you think anyone else is hot, so zip it!
4). I don’t use condoms.
That’s nice. She doesn't want an STD. Condoms are a fact of life in today’s society, so unless you’ve been tested and plan to be monogamous, get used to them.
5). I love you
If you don’t mean it, you’ll be opening Pandora’s Box. Women do not take
this statement lightly. She is waiting for you to say it and when you do, she assumes the relationship is moving to the next level. If you’re not ready for that, then don’t utter these three little words until you are.
6). Did you gain weight?
Does this one really need an explanation? You shouldn’t even say this jokingly, even if your girlfriend is stick thin. Just as you don’t want to hear anything about your “size”, women don’t want to hear about their weight.
7). My ex always/never/used to…
If your ex is still on your mind so much that you need to constantly bring her up, then why are you dating us? Relationships are difficult enough without the ghost of your ex floating around. Either get back with her or shut up.
8). You remind me of my mother.
Do not compare your mother to your girlfriend unless you’ve made it clear that you absolutely adore your mother and think the world of her.
9). Did we have plans?
Oh no you didn’t! If you've made plans to get together, she's been looking forward to it all day. She's been thinking about how to dress and how to do her hair. Don’t rain on her parade by being dumb enough to forget or there will be hell to pay.
10). Keep in touch/Call me.
What the heck is that supposed to mean? That you don’t plan on ever calling her again? That you want her to call you next time? That you’re unsure how she feels about you and you want to see if she'll call? The fact that you are being vague and distant is going to raise a red flag. Upfront honesty might not be the most desirable approach due to a high degree of awkwardness, but sometimes honesty is the best policy.
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