(LADIES!!!!!)
Ladies, Ladies, Ladies...I'm sure if you are reading this that you have heard an assortment of reasons you are unhappy in a relationship. Shoot, you might have read every self-help book known to man in hopes that you could fix your current relationship no matter how awful or stagnant. Chances are, things haven't changed and you are unhappy as ever, so why are you taking part in this colossal waste of time?!! Let me guess, you think you can change him... No, wait, he has great potential?!? You're gut tells you he's the one?!?! SAVE IT!!!
Perhaps I should put my frustration with the female approach to a relationship into an analogy. Lets say I come up to you and complain about a financial struggle. I endlessly complain about never having any money and never seem to understand why. However, you recall countless times when we've been out that I purchased drinks for everyone, or fit the bill at dinner, or splurged on a $2,000 television. You bring this up to me, and I acknowledge it, but it never really sinks in what my real problem is. A few weeks later we have a similar conversation.....and so on ....and so on.........and so on.....catch my drift?!?!
And please spare me the "you can't help who you love" bit...I beg you not to be included in the thousands of women who confuse attraction or chemistry for a real connection. I understand that as humans we are naturally attracted to certain things, but using that as an excuse for what has become destructive behaviour is not only inexcusable, but increasingly annoying. The truth is that you CAN help you fall in LOVE with. What you MUST do in order to control this is make better decisions and or judgement calls when it comes to selecting what type of man you let into your life. I'll give you a big head start.....Men who are TALKERS are rarely DOERS...so do yourself a favor and WRITE that down. That should solve half the battle before I've even listed your top 10 mistakes...so.....YOU'RE WELCOME!!
Top 10 Female Blunders
1). Banking on His Potential
2). Assuming you've figured out the Male Gender
3). Temporarily Molding into Something Your Not
4). Sharing How You Feel Too Early
5). Misreading Male Signals
6). Relying on Female Intuition In regards to Men
7). Expecting HIM to Make You Happy
8). Trying to Convince Him to Like or Love You
9). Lack of Self-Awareness
10). Taking a Girlfriends Advice
**(a detailed description of each "no-no" coming soon)**
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