What He Means When He Says...

Most men are good in articulating that they think, but when it comes to articulating what they feel, they just totally send a different meaning. Decoding a man’s language and knowing what he really wants and can save you a lot of conflicts and confusions. Men often say what they mean, but more often than not don't mean entirely what they say. Men whom are habitual daters are masters at adapting to their surroundings. So if you come across that smooth talking, always say the perfect thing type of guy, chances are his responses are canned.

In hopes of teaching women what to look and watch out for, I'm providing several examples of "What he means when he says...":

What he says: “I think we need to slow down.”
Real message: “You need to slow down, girl.”

What he says: “I’m confused now. I’m not sure what I want.”
Real message: “I don’t want you.”

What he says: “I need some space.”
Real message: “I want to break-up with you, but I don’t know how.”

What he's saying: (In the middle of a sexual act) “I love you”
Real message: “I love that thing you do with your tongue/finger/body right now.”

What he's saying: “You’re really a good person.”
What he means: “I’m sorry, babe but you’re not going to see me again.”

What he's saying: “Let’s be friends.”
What he means: “You are not really my type, but I really think your friend is hot, can you hook me up?”

What he's saying: “We should hang-out sometimes.”
What he means: “I think you’re hot and I want to ask you out, but I’m afraid you’ll say no.”

What he's saying: “I’ll call you.”
What he means: “I may or may not call you at some point between two days and two months from now.”

What he's saying: “That guy seems to be a good friend of yours.”
What he means: “Was there a thing between you and him?”