Dressing for Sex

As a man, it's strange for me to see all of these articles about women dressing for sex as if they were the ones that needed help getting laid!!! To be honest ladies, you could be wearing a brown paper sack, a tiarra and a bar of smelly fisherman boots and 8 out of 10 guys would still give you the go ahead. However, as men it's important for us to "dot the i's and cross the t's" when it comes to sex. I'm aware that women aren't nearly as visual when it comes to sexual stimulation, but let's not be naive and assume that it doesn't matter.

Most women care about how they look, they love to shop and enjoy fashion. So it would be silly as a man to think that they don't pay attention to how I look as well. I'm not saying that we have to go out and spend thousands of dollars on clothes to impress the ladies, but it is important to accentuate your features by wearing certain styles or colors. Ladies pay close attention to several areas when judging a mans appearance, but I'll give you a list of the top 5 fashion must haves when dressing for sex.

1). Shoes - I want you to pay attention the next time you approach a woman at work, the gym, the club or even a supermarket. When a woman checks you out, she starts from the ground up. And wouldn't you know it the first thing she sees are your shoes. They don't have to be Gucci, Diesel or Kenneth Cole, but they better go with your outfit, you better keep them clean and if she sees you wearing black shoes with a brown belt or vice versa, you might as well just walk away.

2). Jeans - Fellas I'm aware that a pair of basketball shorts or sweats are far more comfortable than some form fitting jeans, but when it comes to sex appeal, a nice pair of jeans will go a long way in helping you get to the bedroom. The jeans you wear not only tell a woman that you care about how you look, but it can also tell a woman a lot about your personality. Are you conservative, lazy, a risk taker, bold, etc...?!?

3). Coats - You may be asking yourself why I skipped the shirt portion of the outfit, but allow me to explain. These days a plain t-shirt can have the same type of effect as a button up or a dress shirt depending on the man. However, put with the ideal coat or jacket it can enhance not only the outfit, but the attention you attract as well. The jacket is also important as it can be typically worn 3 out of the 4 seasons on a consistent basis. Hell in the summer you can even through on a sport coat. My advice, invest in a couple of nice coats and you'll significantly increase the positive attention recieved by the opposite sex.

4). Watch - I know that not all men like to wear a watch and thats fine, but if you do decide to wear one, make sure it's not a timex or a runners watch when you're out to dinner, drinks or even on a date. I get it, you're a runner, but to wear it with a sport coat and slacks or jeans shows you're not only "lost" when it comes to fashion, but you're begging her to ask you if you are a runner. Kind of like a guy who wears underarmour or a cut-off shirt everywhere wanting people to knows he works out or is an athlete. It's just obnoxious!! So to make a long story short, take the time to purchase a nice watch, because it could help you seal the deal.

5). Hair - Sure, it's not something you can put on, but it is a huge factor in determining how sexually attractive you are to a woman. I'm not telling you that you have to always have you're hair done up to a "T" or that you have to have the best hair or any hair at all. I'm just saying that take care of what you do have and let her know you took the time to look presentable before you left the house. I don't know if you've ever heard the term, "use what God gave you," but it particularly holds true when it comes to hair.