The Silver Tongued Devil

So many woman complain about falling victim to a smooth talking man. Yet these same women are probably the ones who continue to fall for the same shit over and over again. I'm not saying that all men who know how to speak to women are assholes, but what I am saying is that typically, if something seems to good to be true, it is!!

Women love men who carry themselves in a confident manner and know how to communicate effectively, which makes them susceptible to an attack from the "silver tongued devil." I'm not sure the problem lies in the men that are using what God gave them to achieve specific goals as much as women having the "blinders" on. What I mean by this is that so many women fail to pay complete attention to what men say and often don't put the necessary pieces together to see if he's full of shit or not.

Here are 5 traits of the type of man you may be attracted to, but should ultimately steer clear of unless you consider yourself the "worthy opponent" :

1. They are relaxed, confident, and "into" the person they are talking to.

2. They display presence of mind- a deep sense of themselves as individuals... they are not afraid to be themselves. This is probably the biggest difference between timid introverts and extroverts is that they are not afraid to express their opinions and identity.

3. They speak simply and directly to - not at- the person they are talking with. They are also aware of the feelings of the other person and react accordingly.

4. They have command of their material. They know exactly where they are headed with everything they are saying.

5. Long after you forget what they said- you remember how they said it.