How You Know He Cares

(Ladies of the World)



I think it's safe to say that we've all enjoyed a romantic comedy or two in our lifetime. However despite enjoying these fun loving, happy ending type of movies, we often fail to realize that it's just that, a movie. Probably the most popular self-help book turned romantic comedy of the past 3 or 4 years was aptly titled "He's Just Not That Into You." This book touches on the subject of picking up signs that your significant other might not be that into you and or clearly isn't someone with whom you should invest your time.

Men do or don't do many different things to let a woman know that he is interested in her. The key to knowing whether or not he really is that into you is to pay attention. By paying attention to both the "sweet" things he does and the "not-so-sweet" you'll be able to tell the degree in which he likes you. Don't allow yourself to dwell on the only the good or the bad things he does because that will cause you either to hold on to something that isn't, or dismiss something that could be.

When a man really likes a girl, its all about the effort. If he consistently makes an effort either to talk with or hang out with you; He Likes You!! If a man is the first one to call, text, or email you; He Likes You!! If a man listens more than he talks when in a serious conversation; He Likes You!! If he still gets nervous around you; He Likes You!!

Now, if a man isn't that into you, here are the Top 5 things he'll do:

1). He'll be very inconsistent with dates and or hangouts

2). He'll wait for you to call/text him first

3). He'll try to control every conversation

4). He'll reschedule early and often

5). He'll be vague and distant and often play the victim