The Younger Woman/Older Man Mystery

It is a known fact that women are attracted to older men. When I say older, I don't necessarily mean that a twenty-five year old will date a man who's seventy-three. What I'm saying is that relative to their own age, women, in general, will date men that are a few years older than themselves. So if a woman is twenty, she'll date a man in his thirties. If she's thirty, she'll probably date a man in his forties and so on. Why is it that women behave in such a way?

She is primarily interested in getting a husband-to-be on the hook.

Most women will admit that they want a strong man who can stand his own ground and be confident. Back in the day, this meant an egg fertilizer with blessed genetics who could hunt to feed his family while protecting them from predators.Of course, today we live in a more civilized society. Women no longer need a mate, hunter or protector (basically, they don't need men). But because of her upbringing, a woman still expects a man to provide for his family. She now expects her man to be mature and provide financial stability along with long-term security.

All these traits can be found in most men that are eighteen or over. But more often than not, women will associate older men with the capability of providing all the aforementioned traits.

Obviously, it isn't a big mystery why older men tend to look for younger women. They're usually physically fit, full of energy (makes him feel younger) and have a strong sex drive. Let's not forget that ego also plays a major role. Think about when you see an older man with a beautiful woman around your age. Do you not immediately begin to say to yourself "why is she with him?" or basically any jealous thought that pops into your head. Men generally love to be looked up to by their peirs and what better way to snag that attention then by having a young, sexy and vibrant woman at your side?

Now ladies, just as you tend to date older men for reasons that pertain to your own agenda, older men tend to use the situation to their advantage also. Sure all men are attracted to a young beautiful woman, but the type of older man that can get such a girl knows that he has a certain power over the said woman. He knows that she is seeking a potential husband to be and that he is better suited to give her a life more suitable to that than most. So what do most men do when they know they have the upper hand?!? They manipulate the hell out of the situation.

Remember, relationships are alot like the business world, if you have the supply there will always be a demand!!!