Day Dates

(For the Men of the World)



In the world of dating their are many different types of dates; fun dates, boring dates, romantic dates, etc. Though these dates might differ in the adjective used to describe the event, it is my hope that they all would have one thing in common. They took place at night!!! The principle behind going on dates that take place in the evening is quite simple, women don't go to lunch or coffee with men they want to have sex with!! At least in the beginning.


I completely understand that every once in a while schedule's only permit a lunch or coffee date, but for the most part, if a woman isn't willing to clear up an evening for you, she has no intent on sleeping with you. And most likely, is inadvertently placing you in relationship purgatory, commonly referred to as the Friend Zone. Sure there are some circumstances in which a "day date" is acceptable, but some people also think it's acceptable to pee in public pools...



Sure, we all see men and women sitting at our local Starbucks chatting it up, seemingly having a good time. What you would also see if you paid close attention is that same woman checking her phone every few minutes to see if the guy she wants to come over later is texting her. Yep, sorry fellas, it happens. The sad thing is, we often bring this upon ourselves through initial mistakes.

The fundamentals of avoiding the infamous "day date," are quite similar to those of avoiding the FZ (friend zone.) Both require a man to play a certain degree of "hard-to-get" in order to spark a woman's intrigue. It's human nature to want what we can't have, and most of us want it right away. So the longer you make your self unavailable, the longer she's going to work for both your attention and affection. To simplify this concept I urge you to look at relationship much like a business transaction. As long as you have the "supply," their will be a "Demand."


Day Dates include but are not limited to:

1). Meeting for Coffee

2.) Any meeting that involves lunch

3.) Catching a Matinee (movie)

4.) Bike Rides, Walks, or Jogs

5.) Any date taking place prior to 6 p.m.