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Friday, July 16, 2010

Girls Night Out...

I felt the need to address such an event due to the fact that Men view a Ladies Night out on the town much different than the women who take part in such an extravaganza. Fellas, I understand that when you see a group of women out at a bar or club, dressed to the proverbial "T," you automatically put them in the target category. Men often make the assumption that these women are dressing this way to attract a potential mate. This couldn't be further from the truth. Granted, women do dress nicely if they know a man they are interested in will be at a particular place, but for the most part it's not YOU that these ladies are dressing up for.

Men are thought to be the more competitive of the two genders. They have high testosterone levels and seem to be dependant on competition for survival. However, women are just as competitive as men, but show it in different ways. A prime example of their competitive drive is the fact that they dress nicely when they're out with the "girls." I know it's probably going to come as a shock to some men, but women dress up to impress OTHER WOMEN, not US!!

For women, it's perfectly fine to spend a night out with the ladies having fun while not looking to "hook up" or spend time with men in general. As men it's hard for us to understand this due to the fact this is the sole purpose behind a night out on the town. The fact that we are visual creatures makes it more difficult for us not to constantly be on the prowl for an attractive woman. However, we shouldn't be upset when we see an attractive group of ladies who seem to have little to NO interest or don't respond favorably to our advances.

Women go out with each other to have fun and dance, both of which don't require a man!!!

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