Eb and Flow

One minute, she's the best thing to ever happen to you, the next, your worst nightmare. One day he might be your prince charming, the next, just another "silver-tongued" asshole. At some point in every relationship, we all experience ups and downs, highs and lows, good days and bad days. However, how we choose to handle such times determines how successful our relationships will be. So when experiencing the Eb and Flow of a relationship, do you confront the conflict head on, or do you push it aside in hopes that you will both forget about it?



By now, I hope that the majority of adults accept the fact that "happily ever after" is much more of a fantasy than any type of reality in regards to a relationship. But, if you are someone who believes in Prince Charming and or the perfect relationship, you are probably in a relationship that experiences a high volume of ups and downs on a consistent basis. There are several keys to solving such a problem, but it takes both sides being mature enough to admit guilt or wrong-doing.



5 Keys to Minimize Eb and Flow:



1). Avoid bringing up past arguments



2). If at all possible, keep yelling to a minimum



3). Listen to opposing view



4). Step away for reflection



5). Talk it Out